Tonight I want to tell you the tale of two disputes. The first is a famous dispute between the conductor Leonard Bernstein and the pianist Glenn Gould. The second is a dispute related in this week’s Torah portion between Moses and Korah.
On
the evening of Friday, April 6, 1962, Leonard Bernstein was to conduct
the New York Philharmonic in a performance of Brahms D minor Concerto. The
guest soloist was Glenn Gould, one of the most celebrated classical pianists of
the 20th century. Before the concert began, Mr. Bernstein turned to the
audience and spoke to them, something he rarely did.He told the audience that
they were about to hear an “unorthodox performance” of Brahms D Minor Concerto,
a performance unlike he had ever heard, or even dreamt of. Mr. Gould was going
to play the concerto in a way that departed significantly from the way it had
traditionally been performed, a way that was incompatible with Mr. Berstein’s
own understanding of how it should sound. Sometimes, he explained, a soloist
and a conductor have different ideas about how a musical composition is
supposed to be performed. But they almost always manage, through persuasion, or
charm, or even threats, to achieve a unified performance. This time, however,
Mr. Bernstein said, he was forced to submit to Mr. Gould’s wholly new concept
of Brahms D Minor Concerto.
Why,
Leonard Berstein asked, would he have gone along with this? He could, after
all, have caused a minor scandal by getting a substitute soloist, or, letting
another person conduct! Instead he shared with the audience three reasons for
his decision. First, he said, Glenn Gould was such an accomplished and
serious artist that he ought to take anything he conceives in good faith.
Second, he found moments in the pianist’s performance that emerged with
astonishing freshness and conviction. Third, Glenn Gould brought to music a
curiosity, a sense of adventure and a willingness to experiment which Mr.
Bernstein admired. Maestro Bernstein felt that everyone in the audience
could learn something from hearing the concerto as performed by Glenn
Gould. With that introduction, Mr. Bernstein went on to conduct Brahms Concerto
in D Minor with Glenn Gould as the piano soloist, doing it Mr. Gould’s way.
The
second story is in this week’s parasha which relates the dispute between
Moses and Korah. Korah, Moses' first cousin, is jealous that Aaron has been
appointed High Priest. To compound the issue, another cousin, Elitzafan,
has been chosen as the head of the clan to which Korah belongs. Korah incites a
revolt that challenges Moses’ leadership. Moses tries to reason with Korah and
his followers, but they refuse to talk to him. The episode ends in tragedy, as
Korah and his followers are swallowed up by the earth.
These
two stories raise the question of how we deal with disagreements, both personal
and societal. Does one side have to win, and the other be destroyed, as in the
Biblical story of Korah and his rebellion? Or is there a way to listen to one
another with respect and understanding, even though, in the end, there is still
no room for compromise, as in the story of Bernstein and Gould. The Maestro,
after all, ended up performing the piece precisely Glenn Gould’s way. Yet no
one was destroyed, their relationship endured, the audience was treated to an
original interpretation of the Concerto and both parties went on to
illustrious careers.
Here
we can learn something from the philosopher Sir Isaiah Berlin. He rejects
“relativism”, the idea that every side to a dispute has equal truth and equal
validity. The relativist claims that there is no “absolute truth” -- every
opinion is equally true. The relativist claims that there is no “true” and
“false” when it comes to beliefs and opinions. Rather, Isaiah Berlin favors a
way of viewing disputes that he calls “pluralism”. A pluralistic understanding
of disputes is that honest people, through their reasoning can attain
many different understandings of the” truth.” I can maintain that my view is
“the truth” yet still respect those who have come to a different idea of “the
truth” arrived at through a sincere and thoughtful process. They may not
share my understanding of the truth, but I can still respect them and be
friendly with them. I do not need to destroy them, insult them, or delegitimize
them. They are my fellow disputants, not my mortal enemies. I may even learn a
thing or two from them!
The
Talmud is full of disputes like this. The Talmud records all the opinions
of the Rabbis on various sides of a dispute for posterity. The most famous of
these are the disputes between the School of Hillel and the School of Shammai.
In exploring the Bible to determine how G-d wants us to live our lives, they
often come to diametrically opposite conclusions. In other words, two opposing
“truths' '! Most of the time, we live our lives according to the opinions
of Hillel. But, say the rabbis, that does not mean that the opinions of Shammai
are not to be respected. They are to be preserved. One day, the opinions of
Hillel may be put aside and we will govern our lives according to the opinions
of Shammai. The opinions of Hillel may be true only for our time!
Both
Hillel and Shammai and Bernstein and Gould model what we can call “healthy
controversy”. This can take place only when we approach a dispute or debate
with intellectual honesty and a desire to truly listen, with understanding, to
the “truth” of others. A healthy controversy can only take place when we
refrain from denigrating or insulting one another. It can only take place when
we are motivated by a true desire to engage the other, and not with the goal to
devalue, demean, embarrass or overpower the other with our” brilliance”
and rhetorical mastery. The rabbis call these healthy controversies “disputes
for the sake of heaven”. May all of our controversies be …..”For the Sake of
Heaven”.
Shabbat
Shalom
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